Hi Everyone. This is difficult to write as I find it hard to talk about something that affects me on a very personal and gut level. I would like to ask everyone to open their hearts and vote "No" to the ammendment that would ban gay marriage. I am from SC and I love it very much. It depresses me that the issue of gay marriage has essentially evolved into an issue of right and wrong in this state. What is truly lacking is level headed discussion between the two parties. I know that it is difficult to sway the opinions of those who see being gay as an immoral lifestyle. What can I say? Being gay is no more or less immoral than the heterosexual lifestyle. Some straight people are honest, caring, and good people. Some are not so nice. Gay people are exactly the same. Some are good people and some are not-- But the bottom line is that either straight or gay, we are all still people. Does anyone choose to be straight? That question is rarely up for debate. I think most heterosexuals just say that there was never a question. But for some reason, many people assume that gay people are straight people who somehow lost their way. Whether or not I can convince anyone that I personally never consciously chose to be gay instead of straight, does it really matter? Being gay is not a disease and letting two people who love each other get married is a good thing. I get so frustrated when those who teach about tollerance and understanding are so unwilling to even discuss the possibility of accepting gays. Again, what is lacking is honest communication. Straights do not live the "straight lifestyle" and gays do not live the "gay lifestyle." I know this is probably a rambling message, but please, have a heart. Vote no. Thank you.