Define city.
5 years ago I was that guy that got on your nerves. I moved here to go to college and counted the days until I could return to "the city". I graduated, moved back and got a job working in Comerica Tower in the heart of Detroit. What came along with that is what set me against my home town. The problem? I worked and spent my days downtown, at night i had to return to the suburbs where I was forced to live. Point is the Detroit Metro Area is a donut. During the day and special events it is seemingly an alive city with energy and excitement. At 5:00 o'clock it's a mass exodus to the safety and familiarity of a 3 bedroom brick house with a front and back yard, two stall garage, white picket fence, mundane suburbia hell.
Detroit no-longer works as a city should. Sure some people love living in the suburbs and you will always have them but Detroit doesn't give you the option of city living.
cheers