Meg's husband here... Thanks for the advice! The only caveat is that I'm not sure where her "under 500K" figure came from -- I'd put our upper limit at least 150K below that, which obviously limits our options... but you've given us some ideas.
I grew up in the Boston area (specifically, Wayland, MA -- not to be confused with Wayland Square!), went to college in Worcester, then lived in Jamaica Plain and Roslindale for a couple of years, before moving out to Hudson, then points west. We're looking to come back east, but Boston is ridiculous now, so we're trying to find other options. I'm working on getting a degree in accounting, and am going to look for a job in either Providence or Boston (now that you can take commuter rail there from PVD), or somewhere in between. At least that's Plan A.
Thanks for your help!
Urb